Preparing to be a kinship carer

Here is some advice and guidance on how to prepare for becoming a kinship carer.

Preparing your home

When preparing to welcome a child into your home, it’s crucial to make sure they feel safe and integrated into your family.

Think about where they will be sleeping and what their daily activities will be, to help them feel settled. Make necessary changes to create a welcoming environment.

Also, plan for the future. You might need more space as the child grows and your family’s needs evolve.

Understanding the child’s needs

You might already know the child well, but it’s important to make special time for them. Let them know they can ask questions and talk about their feelings. They may have come to you because of a crisis within their family, so make sure they feel safe to share their emotions. Explain their situation in a way they can understand and reassure them that they are loved, cared for, and safe.

The child might have concerns about what toys they can bring and how they will stay in touch with their siblings. Try to keep any treasured items, like family photo albums.

Find out what they like doing, their daily routines, and any important contacts, such as school friends and activities. Also, ask about their favourite meals and any allergies they may have.

Support networks

If you have a partner or your own children, they will also be affected. Not everyone may agree with the situation, and this can take a toll on your wellbeing and mental health. There's free support available from a variety of organisations to support conversations.

Get in touch

If you have any questions about kinship care or would like support, contact the Family, Friends and Fostering Team: